He travels and has fun – I stress and worry about our Dad
My brother posted more amazing pictures from Thailand today. He and his family are touring, eating amazing meals, and look like they are having so much fun! I doubt our dad’s loneliness, depression, dementia or whether the caregivers were doing their jobs have entered his mind at all these past couple weeks.
Even when he’s not on vacation, he lives states away and counts on me to take care of everything with dad. Sure, he visits a couple times a year for a couple days at a time. Big whoop – maybe six hours a year.
Ok. I’m whining. I volunteered to bring dad to my home town. To find him an assisted living community and to get him settled. What I know now, that I didn’t know then is how draining it is mentally. I’ve tried visiting every day. I’ve tried visiting once every two or three weeks. It doesn’t matter. He’s in my mind constantly.
Sometimes I long for the days when he lived near my brother and I used to travel, eat amazing meals, and look like I was having so much fun! Dad’s loneliness, depression, dementia, or whether the caregivers were doing their jobs hardly ever entered my mind. I’d visit a few times a year and I felt good about it.
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